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Icebreaker questions for coworkers

Good icebreaker questions for coworkers are light, work-safe and quick to answer, like where you eat lunch, how you take notes in meetings or what non-work thing sits on your desk. They help a team learn about each other without putting anyone on the spot. A reliable favorite: "What's a hobby you have that nobody at work would guess?"

40 questions · updated October 28, 2026 by Lyravant

The best work icebreakers are not personal and not forced. They are about things everyone at work already has an opinion on: the last donut in the box, cameras on or off, the ideal meeting length, the snack always at someone's desk.

Use one to open a team meeting, drop it in team chat, or play them as a daily guessing game so new teammates and remote colleagues get to know each other a little at a time.

Play these with your team

Mornings and commutes

  1. What do you usually do on the way to work?
    • Podcasts
    • Music
    • Audiobooks
    • Quiet thinking
  2. What's the first thing you do when you start work?
    • Check messages
    • Make coffee
    • Say hi to people
    • Write a to-do list
  3. When do you show up for a 9am meeting?
    • 10+ minutes early
    • A few minutes early
    • Right at 9:00
    • Already there, chatting
  4. What do you grab on the way out the door?
    • Coffee to go
    • A snack bar
    • Water bottle
    • Just keys
  5. On a work-from-home day, where do you start working?
    • Kitchen table
    • Proper desk
    • Couch
    • Wherever the sun is
  6. What song would you pick to kick off the workday?
  7. What's a morning routine step you never skip?

Desk and focus

  1. What's the most unexpected thing you keep on or near your desk?
  2. How many pens do you have within reach right now?
    • Zero, borrows one
    • Exactly one
    • Two or three
    • A whole cup full
  3. What non-work thing is on your desk?
    • A small toy or figure
    • Snacks
    • A plant
    • Nothing, all business
  4. How do you focus best?
    • Total silence
    • Music with lyrics
    • Instrumental music
    • Background chatter
  5. What's your favorite way to take a break?
    • Short walk
    • Snack run
    • Chat with someone
    • Stretch at the desk
  6. What do you do when you're stuck on something?
    • Take a walk
    • Ask a teammate
    • Doodle
    • Keep pushing
  7. Which day would you make a no-meeting day?
    • Monday
    • Wednesday
    • Friday
    • Every day, please
  8. What sticker would you put on your laptop?
  9. What snack is always at your desk?
  10. What's a focus trick you swear by?

Lunch and coffee

  1. Where do you usually eat lunch on a workday?
    • At my desk
    • Kitchen or break room
    • Out somewhere
    • Walking around
  2. What's your ideal team lunch?
    • Pizza
    • Tacos
    • Sushi
    • Sandwiches
  3. What do you do about the last donut in the box?
    • Take it, no shame
    • Cut it in half
    • Leave it for someone
    • Not a donut person
  4. What's your office snack style?
    • Sweet
    • Salty
    • Fruit
    • Whatever is free
  5. How do you make a cup of tea?
    • Bag stays in
    • Quick dunk
    • Loose leaf
    • Doesn't drink tea
  6. What lunch could you eat every day without getting bored?
  7. What topping do you always want on the team pizza?

Meetings and messages

  1. What's your go-to reaction emoji in team chat?
    • Thumbs up
    • Laughing face
    • Heart
    • Party popper
  2. What's your video call background?
    • Real room, as is
    • Blurred
    • A fun virtual scene
    • A plain wall
  3. What are you usually doing in a brainstorm?
    • Pitching wild ideas
    • Writing everything down
    • Building on others' ideas
    • Quietly thinking, then one gem
  4. What's your favorite meeting length?
    • 15 minutes
    • 25 minutes
    • 30 minutes
    • Could've been a message
  5. How do you write messages?
    • All lowercase, casual
    • Full sentences, tidy
    • Bullet points
    • Lots of exclamation points!
  6. What would you name the team group chat?
  7. What custom emoji would you add to the team chat?
  8. What would your dream out-of-office message say?

Outside of work

  1. What's your side talent?
    • Music
    • Art or drawing
    • Cooking or baking
    • Sports
  2. Which party trick can you pull off?
    • Juggle
    • Whistle loudly
    • A card trick
    • A good impression
  3. What would you be on a team trivia night?
    • Music expert
    • Movies and TV expert
    • Science expert
    • Sports expert
  4. What would you pick for a team activity after work?
    • Bowling
    • Escape room
    • Mini golf
    • Cooking class
  5. How do you want your birthday handled at work?
    • Big celebration, please
    • Cake and a card is perfect
    • A quiet 'happy birthday'
    • Let it slide by
  6. What do you write in a group card?
    • A long heartfelt note
    • A joke
    • 'Congrats!' and my name
    • A tiny doodle
  7. What's a hobby you have that nobody at work would guess?
  8. What could you talk about for an hour with no notes?

Turn these into a daily game

Deja Who asks your group one of these a day. One person answers, everyone else guesses or writes a fake answer to fool the others, and the reveal shows who knows you best. Free, in any phone browser, no app or account.

Play these with your team Try a sample round

How to play these as a guessing game

  1. Create a team group on Deja Who and post the link in your team chat. Nobody needs to install anything or sign up.
  2. Each day, one teammate gets a question about themselves and answers privately.
  3. The rest of the team guesses, or writes a fake answer to fool the others.
  4. The reveal shows who knows that teammate best, with a friendly monthly scoreboard.

Questions people ask

What are good icebreaker questions for coworkers?

Choose light, work-safe questions everyone can answer in a few seconds, like where they eat lunch or their go-to reaction emoji. Skip anything about money, family plans or other private topics.

How do you run an icebreaker with a remote team?

Post one question at the start of a meeting or in team chat and let people answer in writing. Deja Who turns it into a daily guessing game from a single link, so remote teammates can play on their own schedule.

How long should a work icebreaker take?

Two to five minutes is plenty. Multiple-choice questions are fastest; open questions like hidden talents take a bit longer and get more laughs.

What icebreakers work for new hires?

Easy, low-pressure questions such as their ideal team lunch or what they do on the way to work. They give new people something to talk about without sharing anything personal.

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