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"How well do you know me?" quiz questions

The best "how well do you know me" questions have one clear answer that a close friend could guess, like your favorite color, your usual coffee order or what you check first when you wake up. Mix easy favorites with small habits and childhood details so the score isn't just luck. Good picks: "What's your go-to comfort movie?" and "What did you want to be when you grew up?"

38 questions · updated October 28, 2026 by Lyravant

A good "how well do you know me" quiz feels fair: every question has an answer you could know if you've spent time together. Favorites and food are the warm-up, habits sort the casual friends from the close ones, and childhood questions are where even best friends slip.

Answer the questions about yourself first, then have friends guess. Multiple-choice questions keep scoring simple; open questions are harder and more fun to reveal.

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The basics

  1. How would you rather spend a summer night?
    • Bonfire
    • Night swim
    • Outdoor movie
    • Stargazing
  2. What's your favorite time of day?
    • Sunrise
    • Afternoon
    • Sunset
    • Late night
  3. If you were a crayon, what would your color be called?
  4. What's your all-time favorite movie?
  5. Who's your favorite musician or band?
  6. What book would you recommend to everyone?
  7. What's your favorite smell?
  8. How much do you love surprises?
  9. How excited do you get for your birthday?

Food and drinks

  1. How do you take your coffee?
    • Black
    • Milk and sugar
    • Sweet and iced
    • Doesn't drink coffee
  2. What's your ideal pizza crust?
    • Thin and crispy
    • Deep dish
    • Stuffed crust
    • Classic regular
  3. Which ice cream flavor would you choose?
    • Chocolate
    • Vanilla
    • Mint chip
    • Cookie dough
  4. How do you like your cookies?
    • Soft and chewy
    • Crispy and crunchy
    • Slightly underbaked
  5. At a new restaurant, how do you order?
    • Tries something new
    • Sticks to a favorite
    • Asks the server
    • Copies a friend
  6. What food can you absolutely not stand?
  7. What's your go-to late-night snack?
  8. What's your usual order at a coffee shop?
  9. What's your go-to takeout order?

Little habits

  1. How many alarms do you set in the morning?
    • Just one
    • Two or three
    • Four or more
    • No alarm
  2. How many unread notifications do you usually have?
    • Zero
    • A few
    • Hundreds
    • Thousands
  3. What do you check first when you wake up?
    • Messages
    • Social media
    • Weather
    • Nothing, phone stays off
  4. Where do you usually leave your keys?
    • Hook by the door
    • Bag or pocket
    • Somewhere new every day
  5. Do you watch shows with subtitles on?
    • Always
    • Sometimes
    • Never
  6. When cooking, do you follow the recipe?
    • Exactly
    • Loosely
    • Never, pure freestyle
  7. What's your most-used emoji?
  8. How often do you fall asleep watching TV?
  9. What do you always have in your bag or pockets?
  10. What's your go-to comfort movie?
  11. On a free Saturday with zero plans, how would you rank these, most likely first?
    • Sleep in
    • Head outside
    • Binge a show
    • Call up friends

Growing up

  1. As a kid, what were you most into?
    • Lego
    • Drawing
    • Video games
    • Playing outside
  2. How did you handle bedtime as a little kid?
    • Went happily
    • Begged for 5 more minutes
    • Read under the covers
    • Snuck out to watch TV
  3. What type of toy did you love most as a kid?
    • Stuffed animals
    • Action figures
    • Building blocks
    • Board games
  4. What's a game you made up as a kid?
  5. What did you want to be when you grew up?
  6. What was your first concert?
  7. What was the name of your favorite stuffed animal?
  8. What was your favorite cartoon growing up?
  9. What was the first song you knew every word to?

Turn these into a daily game

Deja Who asks your group one of these a day. One person answers, everyone else guesses or writes a fake answer to fool the others, and the reveal shows who knows you best. Free, in any phone browser, no app or account.

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How to play these as a guessing game

  1. Create a group on Deja Who and send the link to your friends in any group chat.
  2. When it's your turn, answer a question about yourself privately.
  3. Your friends guess your answer, and can write a fake one to throw off the others.
  4. The reveal shows who knows you best, and the season scoreboard keeps track over the month.

Questions people ask

What questions should be on a "how well do you know me" quiz?

Use questions with one clear answer: favorites, food orders, daily habits and childhood details. Avoid anything that needs a long explanation or that you would not want to share with the group.

How many questions should a "how well do you know me" quiz have?

Ten to twenty is enough for a single sitting. If you play one question a day, a month of questions gives a much better picture of who really knows you.

How do you score a "how well do you know me" quiz?

Give a point for each correct guess and compare totals at the end. In Deja Who, friends guess privately, the reveal shows who matched your answer, and points add up across a monthly season.

Can I play this with someone I just met?

Yes. Easy favorites like season or ice cream flavor give new friends a fair chance, and the answers are good conversation starters.

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